A young woman saw me on my shift today. In the process of being evaluated for a work related injury, her physician ordered some x-rays. One of them showed an incidental finding of a lung nodule. She was told she would need a CT scan to rule out a malignancy. But, her workman’s compensation doctor wouldn’t order it, since it was not work related. And she did not have a personal physician. Anxious, she came to the ER.
Long and short; the chest CT showed a benign, calcified granuloma. No cancer! She stood up, breathed a deep sigh of relief…then hugged me!
Now, I do lots of things at work. Close lacerations, evaluate sick children, treat heart attacks, negotiate with drug seekers, encourage alcoholics, and on and on. But when I get a hug just for saying, ‘it’s nothing to worry about,’ I feel that I have done something remarkable.
In medicine, we give plenty of bad news. I diagnosed a brain tumor just a few days ago. But we also have the gift of giving good news. And we should relish it. Furthermore, we should use technology and communication to do it faster and more effectively.
The days of having a CT scan to rule out cancer, then having someone say, ‘I’ll see you in two weeks to go over the results,’ should be long gone. Back when things weren’t read quickly, back when there was no e-mail, no text-messaging, when computers were slow as molasses, the days when physicians and patients both simply had to wait, it just took longer. Now, there really aren’t any excuses. After all, we practitioners often forget that two weeks of uncertainty about cancer, or some other significant illness, can be a real ‘dark night of the soul.’
If it is in your power to 1) discover good news, 2) give good news and 3) give it quickly, by all means do it and enjoy it.
The bad news comes quickly and frequently enough already.
You might get a hug! You’ll certainly be appreciated.
The worst part of cancer, and we both know how bad the rest of it is, is waiting for the biopsy report.
lynne Abraham
12 years ago
This so true and We experienced ith with Jackson. After his surgery and week wait for the oncologist, we waited for three hours in the treatment room for him to come in and go over the chemo plan. I thought i would die and it was just three hours. Turns out he was reading about a new treatment option while we were waitiing. When i asked the nurse what the wait was about he came right in. I explained to him that when you or your loved one has cancer and is waiting, that it is excrutiating to wait even… Read more »
Carolyn Keese
12 years ago
I couldn’t agree more that if more doctors have experienced this personally, either for themselves or a loved one, they could more easily undestand how hard the waiting is. My first cancer surgery, had to wait 2 weeks to get node results, which that time were fine, but I was a crazed person by the time I heard. This time was much quicker, with much more compassionate doctors who delivered the not so good news. Blessings to you and Jan.
patti
12 years ago
i have a close friend very young going through the same thing xrays were done after much fighting with insurance now she has a 2 week wait to get results from md this is so unfair to a patient being an rn i know how soon results are available wish things would change thanks for your great work have enjoyed working with you
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The worst part of cancer, and we both know how bad the rest of it is, is waiting for the biopsy report.
This so true and We experienced ith with Jackson. After his surgery and week wait for the oncologist, we waited for three hours in the treatment room for him to come in and go over the chemo plan. I thought i would die and it was just three hours. Turns out he was reading about a new treatment option while we were waitiing. When i asked the nurse what the wait was about he came right in. I explained to him that when you or your loved one has cancer and is waiting, that it is excrutiating to wait even… Read more »
I couldn’t agree more that if more doctors have experienced this personally, either for themselves or a loved one, they could more easily undestand how hard the waiting is. My first cancer surgery, had to wait 2 weeks to get node results, which that time were fine, but I was a crazed person by the time I heard. This time was much quicker, with much more compassionate doctors who delivered the not so good news. Blessings to you and Jan.
i have a close friend very young going through the same thing xrays were done after much fighting with insurance now she has a 2 week wait to get results from md this is so unfair to a patient being an rn i know how soon results are available wish things would change thanks for your great work have enjoyed working with you