Yesterday, in the emergency department, a woman cried and confessed to me how sad and depressed she has been for most of her adult life; she told me that her boyfriends always said cruel things to her; she lamented her lack of a way to make it in the world, because her job paid so little.
A little later, another woman told that her legs were hurting, but that they always had because when she was young, her mother constantly beat her with broom handles and other implements, under the pretense of ‘loving her and wanting to make her better.’Â Later her husband was cruel to her as well.
It isn’t the first time. People often tell me their stories. Sometimes I just want to touch them, to comfort them. Often, I try, if only by listening, by telling them I’ll pray for them, by offering them some little bit of hope. Like telling them that however anyone else views them, God loves them like a beloved little child.
Holy week should resonate with everyone working in an emergency department. I think that Jesus would have like the emergency room; no, I think he does. Not because he enjoys suffering, but because it’s a place of vulnerability, where people often come when they are at the end of their strength.
I imagine him walking from room to room, listening, touching, praying, and forgiving. Imagine that! People with histories of evil miles long; with addictions like demonic possessions that force them to do horrible things; with crimes lurking in the recess of their minds. Imagine Jesus forgiving them and setting them free!
Imagine Jesus saying, ‘No, you don’t need disability any more!’ ‘Pain pills are killing you; let me kill the pain!’ ‘I don’t care what you did, it’s gone now. Go forth and sin no more!’
Holy week isn’t about some weird ancient religion of blood and hatred. Holy week, the Passion, is about the Son of God coming down to the great ER of life, taking the wounds and lies and addictions and hurt and misery on himself. It’s about Him taking all of that and immersing it in death so that it died, and he rose.
Sure, we’re still struggling. Yes, messes and tragedy, sickness and death still exist. But the hope is there. The forgiveness is there. There is love for the loveless and difficult. There is healing for every broken part. There is a promise of new life now, and new life later.
Jesus, the great ER doctor.
I believe that He dwells in all who follow Him. Maybe that’s why they tell me the stories of their brokenness. Not because of me; but because of Him, whom (hopefully) they see in me.
That’s what we need. Jesus in us, in the ER, day in and day out, night after night.
Listening, confronting, forgiving, touching, rebuking, informing and most of all loving all of the people, good and bad, who come through the door.
No doubt! I’m sure it keeps him busy. Thanks for the beautiful image!
LetLive
15 years ago
Personally, I think religion has no place in the hospital other than at the explicit request of the patient. If you told me that you’d pray for me and that Jesus loves me, all it would succeed in doing is making me extremely uncomfortable. As a patient, I am already vulnerable enough without the additional discomfort of the implication that I am somehow less of a person because I am not a Christian. However, if a patient requested you pray for them, than by all means do! Not everyone is a Christian, and you need to respect that not every… Read more »
A good point. However, please realize that unlike the popular image of most Christians as fire-breathing, Bible-thumping, anger spewing crazies, few of us have any interest in forcing opinions on others. I’ve been practicing medicine for over 15 years; I’ve been a Christian most of my life. I try to use my insight into people to know who is receptive and who isn’t. Also remember, I practice in the Bible Belt, where Christianity is the undercurrent of most of the culture. As to whether religion has a place in the hospital or not, this is obviously a much debated topic.… Read more »
HarleyOne
15 years ago
LetLive why would someone telling you they would be thinking about you and hoping for the best for you make you “extremely uncomfortable”? Our progressivly secular culture has, in some ways, removed the humanity from us. Simply take it for what it is and be grateful there are people who care enough about the stranger among them to wish them well. I don’t see how a prayer implies you “are less of a person”. Why not consider it makes you a special person, what a more positive way to see things. Maybe this is better, take care my friend.
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FYI: Jesus hangs out on the oncology ward, too. I see him there all the time.
No doubt! I’m sure it keeps him busy. Thanks for the beautiful image!
Personally, I think religion has no place in the hospital other than at the explicit request of the patient. If you told me that you’d pray for me and that Jesus loves me, all it would succeed in doing is making me extremely uncomfortable. As a patient, I am already vulnerable enough without the additional discomfort of the implication that I am somehow less of a person because I am not a Christian. However, if a patient requested you pray for them, than by all means do! Not everyone is a Christian, and you need to respect that not every… Read more »
A good point. However, please realize that unlike the popular image of most Christians as fire-breathing, Bible-thumping, anger spewing crazies, few of us have any interest in forcing opinions on others. I’ve been practicing medicine for over 15 years; I’ve been a Christian most of my life. I try to use my insight into people to know who is receptive and who isn’t. Also remember, I practice in the Bible Belt, where Christianity is the undercurrent of most of the culture. As to whether religion has a place in the hospital or not, this is obviously a much debated topic.… Read more »
LetLive why would someone telling you they would be thinking about you and hoping for the best for you make you “extremely uncomfortable”? Our progressivly secular culture has, in some ways, removed the humanity from us. Simply take it for what it is and be grateful there are people who care enough about the stranger among them to wish them well. I don’t see how a prayer implies you “are less of a person”. Why not consider it makes you a special person, what a more positive way to see things. Maybe this is better, take care my friend.