I wonder, sometimes, if humanity is progressively, steadily, losing touch with everything it means to be human. I could give a long list of reasons I believe this to be true, but what strikes me are the ways people are incredulous about their bodies when I see them in the emergency department.
Afflicted with a bruise on an arm or leg, but no fracture, they say: ‘So if it isn’t broken, why does it hurt like this?’ Or, ‘why is it black and blue?’
When their children have cough and head colds, and no pneumonia, they are flabbergasted by fever. ‘I don’t get it. I give him Tylenol and the fever goes away…but then it comes RIGHT back! Something must be wrong! And he won’t get up and play or anything!’
Or this one, whose young wife fell a few feet down an embankment but suffered no fractures. ‘Have you ever heard someone fall and make a loud thump?’ Simply stunned that contact with the ground wasn’t silent.
I don’t mean to belittle uncertainty, but in ages past our grandmothers, with no formal medical training, knew that bruises were painful, fevers were cyclic and falling down (outside of a vacuum) made a noise!
Have we so ‘medicalized’ the world that nobody knows what normal human bodies do?
At our current rate, it’s unlikely to change, as every natural process from birth to death becomes insulated in procedures, diagnoses, medications and ironically, increasing mystery to a world of humans out of touch with their very humanity.
I think there’s a lot of truth to what you say.I’m reminded of the radical priest Ivan Illich, who probably put it most eloquently, though I think he went a little too far (medicine is still an amazing good). Illich: “Medical procedures turn into sick religion when they are performed as rituals that focus the entire expectation of the sick on science and its functionaries instead of encouraging them to seek a poetic interpretation of their predicament or find an admirable example in some person—long dead or next door—who learned to suffer.”
Sarah
11 years ago
I find myself thinking the same thing. I work in OB and often triage women who come in for things that with some common sense and a little knowledge of the workings of the human body could have been figured out at home.
Mary Beth
11 years ago
OK not to be the Devils Advocate, but have you ever had irrational thoughts when a loved one such as a child is sick. I am guilty off this. When my daughter was hospitalized with a DVT and PE last year after a surgery I had very irrational thinking. It DEFINITELY made me more sensitive to the crazy questions I am asked at work. What helped me the most? ONE doctor, her hematologist, who simply sAid “Im so sorry this happened to you.”. It brought me to tears to have a single person who seemed so concerned. Go figure.
Absolutely! My entire last year was a vacation in irrational land! I suppose I don’t mean that so much as a simple lack of connection with our bodies. A college student recently had incredible difficulty believing a bruise could be very painful, even after a very extensive radiographic evaluation. Simply couldn’t accept it. But irrational thoughts on my part? Absolutely.
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I think there’s a lot of truth to what you say.I’m reminded of the radical priest Ivan Illich, who probably put it most eloquently, though I think he went a little too far (medicine is still an amazing good). Illich: “Medical procedures turn into sick religion when they are performed as rituals that focus the entire expectation of the sick on science and its functionaries instead of encouraging them to seek a poetic interpretation of their predicament or find an admirable example in some person—long dead or next door—who learned to suffer.”
I find myself thinking the same thing. I work in OB and often triage women who come in for things that with some common sense and a little knowledge of the workings of the human body could have been figured out at home.
OK not to be the Devils Advocate, but have you ever had irrational thoughts when a loved one such as a child is sick. I am guilty off this. When my daughter was hospitalized with a DVT and PE last year after a surgery I had very irrational thinking. It DEFINITELY made me more sensitive to the crazy questions I am asked at work. What helped me the most? ONE doctor, her hematologist, who simply sAid “Im so sorry this happened to you.”. It brought me to tears to have a single person who seemed so concerned. Go figure.
Mary,
Absolutely! My entire last year was a vacation in irrational land! I suppose I don’t mean that so much as a simple lack of connection with our bodies. A college student recently had incredible difficulty believing a bruise could be very painful, even after a very extensive radiographic evaluation. Simply couldn’t accept it. But irrational thoughts on my part? Absolutely.